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How do I go about writing a biographical account of my father? [closed]

I want to write a book involving the life of my father. He's been a political activist during his youth and the events that he narrates are worthy to be recorded.

But I am confused as to what it should be? Like, do I make a biography of his life? What genre should this fall into?

Also, he has turned spiritual in his later years and there's been a series of supernatural events occurring in his life. He has also been fascinated with parapsychology and read a wide variety of books on politics and philosophy.

I want to include all of these elements in my book. But, making it fictional by just changing names will be easier, since it would require less research. I thought about using Google, but not everything is available.

There's been quite a bloody history of the communist party in my state and people faced oppression. He was a youth congress leader and helped people out keeping his own life at risk. All the events are real, but some of them are difficult to put in chronological order.

What should I do? Anyone?

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• 1 I vote to keep this question open. It is a fair question about choosing the appropriate genre for a certain kind of biographical story. –  rolfedh Commented Jun 16, 2020 at 0:50

It sounds like you want to write a memoir of your father.

The advantage of writing a memoir is that there is no expectation of academic research or factual accuracy; it is a compilation of personal memories and anecdotes.

If your father, family, and friends are still around, it's a great idea to tell them about your project. Invite them to sit around an audio recorder and start trying to remember the stories he told. It's amazing how much more detail and depth you'll be able to collect this way.

In these gatherings, people talk so much faster and freely than anyone can write. Each recollection brings up a bunch of other memories and details, and sometimes disagreements. If you have the time, you might be able to go around and visit some of his old friends. It's also a great time to collect important photographs, news clippings, and other related documents.

The most important thing is to start it now - don't let yourself become tangled up in technicalities - people die and memories fade - the best time to do this is now!

There are lots of helpful topics on memoir writing:

• https://writing.stackexchange.com/search?q=memoir
• https://www.writersdigest.com/memoir-writing
• https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Memoir

There are also many examples of the genre:

• https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rufina_Pukhova
• https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Under_a_Red_Sky
• https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dreams_from_My_Father
• https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/1997/11/17/memoir-of-a-revolutionary/amp

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“When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years.” – Mark Twain

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I celebrated my father’s 100th birthday recently with a prayer. It is so hard to believe he has been gone for 14 years already. The son of Slovak immigrants, he survived the Great Depression, served in World War II, went to college on the GI Bill, and managed to raise eight kids on a very modest income. And yet my dad was able to later leave his kids a seven-figure stock portfolio. When I asked him how he did it, he smiled and said, “Nickels and dimes, Aug. Nickels and dimes and a million dollars’ worth of consistency and compound interest.”

I owe so much to my dad. Here are a few examples:

• The Value of Education . My dad was fanatically committed to education. He earned a master’s degree and the course work for his PhD by going to the University of Pittsburgh at night. His children never questioned for a single second whether we would go to college. It was just assumed. I owe my own commitment to lifelong learning to my father.
• The Value of Hard Work . Like his father before him, my dad believed that dedication and hard work could overcome just about any genetic or societal disadvantage life could throw at him. I have found this to be true. I was delivering papers, mowing lawns and shoveling snow as a 9-year-old, and I finagled my first full time summer job at the ripe old age of 12. I often met people smarter than me. Few could outwork me.
• Be Your Best . My dad always expected my best. As a fifth grader, I managed to make the football team. One day I came home almost in tears because the coach had “hollered at me.” My dad smiled and said, “He hollered at you because he cares. He wants you to be your best. When he stops hollering is when we start to worry!”
• The Value of Sacrifice . Look up deferred gratification in your dictionary and if my dad's picture isn’t there it should be. My dad cheerfully worked two and sometimes three jobs for his family. He expected very little for himself except for that jar of cold water he kept in the "icebox" that his feckless kids kept drinking and returning empty!
• Be a Saver and Investor . My dad got me saving and investing in stocks as a 9-year-old newspaper boy. Like him, I have been a saver rather than a spender ever since. As a corollary, my dad didn't borrow money and neither do I.
• Don't Cut Corners . My dad never cut corners. He taught us to go the extra mile instead. "Be the first in and the last out because there is always someone watching. Successful people look around for more work rather than trying to shirk it. ‘That’s not my job!’ is not in their vocabulary.”
• Never Worry About "The Other Guy." My dad was not envious. He didn't slack off because “the other guy" was, and he didn't worry about how much "the other guy" was making. "Don't worry about what the other guy is doing," he always said. "Make the other guy worry about what you are doing."
• Be Bold! My dad taught me audacity. Whether it was landing front row Rolling Stones' tickets, a prep school scholarship, a handwritten letter from J.D Salinger, a job at MTV, starting my own company on $2500, or winning $100,000 in an essay contest on my first try at writing, most of my success just came from audaciously "going for it." Most folks think, "That could never happen for me." My dad taught me to think, "Why not me?"
• Always Have a Guy . I can still see my dad calling up the owner of the best bakery in Pittsburgh. “Reg,” he would invariably say, “It’s Augie, Reg.” Soon, we would be on our way to buy bake goods for $.50 cents on the dollar. My father “had a guy” for everything. He never paid retail, and cash rarely changed hands. How did he do it? First, my father genuinely liked people. He made friends everywhere. Secondly, he was always looking for opportunities to do favors for others. “Never wait till you need something,” he often told me, “if you want people to help you offer to help them first.” I took his “pay it forward” advice to heart. Whenever I need something, my first question is, “Who do I know?” And whenever I have something, my first question is “Who can I share this with?” Whether it is bake goods or billion-dollar enterprises, the best people always “have a guy.”
• Be a Fighter . My dad was neither violent nor physically aggressive, but he taught me to never walk away from a fight that needed fighting. When I complained of bullying as a kid, he suggested a timely sock in the kisser. I followed his advice, and I have never looked back. Fear is the single greatest obstacle on the path to success. Never let fear hold you back.
• The Value of Struggle. Helping your kids succeed is relatively easy. Knowing when to let them struggle is hard. I was my father’s oldest son, and he desperately wanted me to succeed. But he also understood how important it was to resist the temptation to intervene. At 14, I won a scholarship to the Hotchkiss School, an exclusive boarding school in Connecticut. For the first two years I was way over my head, miserable, and failing miserably. Though sympathetic, my father wouldn’t let me quit, and in my senior year I turned it all around. Looking back, this was a crucial turning point in my life, and I owe it to my father’s ability to sit on his hands. As a leader, knowing when to intervene and when to let someone struggle is a critical skill as well.
• Don’t Neglect Your Soul . My father was a deeply religious man. We often prayed together as a family in the car, and I can still remember him dragging my reluctant and semi somnolent body out of bed at 6 a.m. every day during Lent so we could go to Mass.  My own spirituality has always been my number one priority, and I trace every inch of success I’ve ever had back to this commitment.  
• Family is Everything . My dad was the consummate “Family Man.” He was so dedicated to his kids that when he joined a golf league at work, he took me and my brother along as 10 and 8-year-old "caddies." My mother would laugh and say, “Your father can’t even go to the grocery store without three or four of you kids for company!” My dad didn't drink, smoke, or "hang with the guys." All he wanted was to be with his family.

Shortly before he died, my dad was visited by a priest. When he left, my brother asked what they had spoken about.

"I asked Father if it was OK to pray for myself," he said.

"Of course, it is!"

"Yes, that's what Father said. But I am just so grateful for my family that I can't bring myself to ask God for anything else."

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My dad is the most magnificent and magical man in my life.

He is, and always has been, my biggest supporter and most incredible source of inspiration. My younger sister feels the same, but this is less about her (sorry, not sorry), and more about me and the admiration I have for a man who taught me how to live and love.

For the record, my mom’s pretty damn magical, too ― but since Father’s Day is Sunday, I want to pay tribute to my dad and all the important life lessons he has taught me, and my sister, over the years. Hopefully, some of these lessons will come in handy for you, too:

1. He taught me that education is everything, and that if I wanted to achieve anything in life, I could.

2. He taught me that life is about learning, and that seeking the truth would teach me more about myself, and the world, than anything else I could imagine.

3. He taught me that independence comes with responsibility, and he allowed me to learn that the hard way.

4. He taught me I can do anything I put my mind to ― if I can manage to put my smartphone down for long enough.

5. He taught me that a good book is the best vacation, and that play is just as important as work.

6. He taught me that corny is cool (enough), and that laughing at your own jokes is, too... even when no one else laughs with you, dammit.

7. He taught me that procrastination isn’t cool, and that’s a lesson I’m still learning.

8. He taught me that my words matter, and that I should always write and say what I mean.

9. He taught us that grammar and spelling are important ― and that editing is, too.

10. He taught me, during every summer break, that "we're all perpetually learning. School never ends, because life schools us every day."

11. He taught me that time is life's most valuable resource, and what I do with it is a reflection of who I am.

12. He taught me how to give back to my people and community.

13. He taught me that family is fundamental, and love is our foundation.

14. He taught me that our family's black history is revolutionary, and I should carry on that spirit in everything I do.

15. He taught me that being Ethiopian is a beautiful thing, and I have always expressed that proudly.

16. He taught me that kindness is key, and that while "it's nice to be important, it's more important to be nice."

17. He taught me how to handle my money, and that if I "look[ed] after the pennies, the dollars would look after themselves."

18. He taught me no one is ever too old to learn, and that we should always be willing to try anything (within reason).

19. He taught me that "I love you" means more when you show it than when you say it -- that love needs to be felt, not just said.

20. He taught me to be grateful for my blessings, and how to find faith freely.

21. He taught me that simplicity is the goal, and clutter is the devil.

22. He taught me how to balance humility with confidence, and that those two traits would get me far in life.

23. He taught me that no matter how badly or how often I fumble, he always has my back.

24. He taught me that people constantly evolve, and that the woman I want to be tomorrow can always be a better version of the woman I am today.

25. He taught me that no matter how far apart we are, laughter will always bring us closer.

Happy Father's Day, Daddy. I love you forever and always, "so much, so much."

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The first step is to gather all the interesting stories of your parents’ lives. The research phase can be easy for you, but it might overwhelm your parents. Sit with them and listen carefully to their story. Enjoy that pleasant conversation — it’s not an interrogation! As they talk, hand them photo albums, old letters, or objects with sentimental value to prompt their memories.  

As you talk, focus on having a  five-sense conversation .  Your goal isn’t just to know the facts about dates and places. You also want to awaken emotions that were asleep in a hidden memory. To do that, the storytellers must work with their senses to access the best of their memories and speak from their hearts. In that way, you capture their authentic voices when it’s time to type those words on the computer.

To touch on the five senses, ask for details about what things looked like — colors, textures, shape and size. If there’s a song they love, play it, and maybe even dance or sing together. If there’s a meal your parents enjoyed as kids, try to cook that meal with them. Spend time with them and enjoy the process together, doing all you can to gather rich details about sight, sound, taste, touch and smell. 

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Don’t be afraid to ask about everything that intrigues you. Invite your parents to talk about their dreams and downfalls, their struggles and efforts, their progress and their mistakes. Ask them which crisis made them grow, the happiest moments of their life together, and what advice they would offer to the future generations of your family — or the world.

If there are gaps in their stories, you can call on other relatives or family friends for additional information. Those supporting characters in the story can offer another perspective or a more detailed description of an anecdote.

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B.D.: A Biography of My Father Paperback – June 1, 1982

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• Publication date June 1, 1982
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A short biography of my father

As I've already mentioned online somewhere, my father died in late November. His memorial service will be held in February, at the church he attended. I wrote up a short biography for the pastors at the church to refer to in their eulogy (or whatever it is called that is read out at a memorial service) and I thought I'd post it here too, as a sort of closure. It is admittedly the 'good' version of my father's life, and leaves out a lot, but it is what I think is most fitting.

Masamichi Itoh was born in 1936 in Tokyo. His parents were Salvation Army officers working at a Salvation Army hospital. They were Christians, which was very unusual for Japanese people at that time. While he was evacuated to the countryside during the war, he spent most of his youth in Tokyo. Years later he remembered always being hungry as a child, especially in the postwar period, and his mother struggling to feed six children. He was the oldest.

From an early age he was very interested in America and learning English. In his teens he had more than 25 penpals in America, all but one of whom were girls, most of them blonde. His favorite American actress was June Allyson. When he entered college in the '50s, he grew his hair into a "regent" - a big fluffy pompadour at front, like James Dean - and frequented the dance halls of Tokyo, dancing the boogie woogie.

At the age of 26 he married Michiko Munemura, a 21 year old girl with big eyes. It was an arranged marriage, the usual way young people got married in Japan at the time. They eventually had three daughters - Makiko, Mayumi and Megumi. Makiko lives in France, Mayumi in Japan, and Megumi in Florida. He also has two grandchildren, Lyoh and Lena.

His English ability and his interest in travelling abroad finally came together in his early 30s, when he was sent to England by his company to cultivate business there. He was their sole representative in Europe for 5 years. After six months he was joined by his wife and two older daughters (daughter no. 3 was born later in the United States). Life was tough sometimes, but looking back later he said he really enjoyed his time in England.

After several years in England and a year in New York, he and his family returned to Tokyo. But back in Japan, he did not feel like he fit into his company anymore. Unhappy, he took the drastic step of resigning - a very unusual thing to do for a Japanese salaryman in the 1970s. He found another job back in New York and the family moved once more.

Perhaps because of so many moves, the marriage became too strained, and he divorced from his wife a few years later. He eventually found friendship and a purpose in life again when he joined the Universal Church, which became the center of his spiritual and social life. He found it very fulfilling to serve on the church's board, especially after retirement. That and his friends here [in New York] were the main reasons why he decided to live out his retirement in New York rather than going back to Japan.

Masamichi had a lifelong love of good food, movies, and travel. He used to keep file folders full of the business cards of restaurants he visited around the world. When he was in his 60s, he went back to dance class again to boogie woogie once more.

(See also: Doing business as a Japanese businessman in the '60s and '70s' )

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Thank you for sharing.

Did you parents decide to keep the M name going or is that something that Japanese families do traditionally? We almost did that with our son. But I decided I didn't want tradition and his name is so strange to most people anyway that I just like it. Even though it's a really old English name. Your Father really lived a vibrant life, or at least it sounds that way! Thank you so much for sharing!

The M thing is just a

The M thing is just a coincidence, definitely not any kind of tradition. Though when it came time to name my youngest sister my parents may have looked for an M-name on purpose.

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I Am So Very Grateful to Have My Father as My Hero

As Father’s Day approaches, sending a card or calling my father seems inadequate given all he has done for me over my lifetime. So I’m writing this blog post to more adequately express my thoughts.

My father was born and raised in a farming family who had to move farms on several occasions due to poor crops, bad weather and the Great Depression. He worked his way through his university studies and Bachelor’s degree. He fought in World War II as a co-pilot in a B-17 bomber. On his fourth mission over Germany, his plane was shot down and within a few days, he found himself in Stalag-Luft 1, a German prisoner of war camp, near Barth.

Dad was a POW from mid-September to mid-May,  suffering months of brutally cold weather in northern Germany. The POWs survived on a very limited diet, no heat and overly crowded barracks. I write this to let you know that he didn’t have it easy, yet what is most impressive is that my father never complains. Perhaps because of his upbringing and his POW experience, he realizes that things could be worse and that complaining doesn’t usually help.

I am so very grateful to have my father as my Hero. A father that taught me by example how to live a full life, to be happy and grateful. A father who taught me to work hard and not complain.

Thank you and Happy Father’s Day! p.s. He was also a great family historian

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1. Reflect on your memories and your father's life

2. organize your thoughts and ideas, 3. write from the heart, 4. revise and edit the tribute, 5. practice your tribute, writing a tribute to my dad example.

Losing a father creates a void in life that can never be filled, and commemorating his life at a memorial service is a solemn yet significant responsibility. Writing a tribute to your dad is not an easy task, but with the right approach and a heartfelt message, you can honour his memory and express your gratitude for the impact he had on your life.

In this article, we will guide you through the steps to craft a moving and memorable tribute to your father, while also introducing you to the Eulogy Assistant – a valuable tool that can help you create a personalized and meaningful eulogy in just minutes.

Take time to reflect on your father's life and the memories you shared – this can include special moments, accomplishments, and even challenges that shaped him as a person. Think about what made him unique and the characteristics and values that you admired in him. Remember those fond moments and recollect those life lessons that he passed on to you, which can serve as a foundation for your tribute.

Now that you have an idea of the experiences and moments you want to include in your tribute, it's essential to organize them in a coherent manner. You can use a chronological approach, starting with your father's early life and moving to his later years or use a thematic approach based on the values and principles that were important to him. Organizing your thoughts will help you structure your tribute and ensure that you cover all important aspects.

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When it comes to writing a tribute, sincerity and authenticity are key. Use your own voice and express your emotions honestly. Your relationship with your father was unique, so feel free to share anecdotes and funny moments that capture his essence, but also share your emotions and sadness. A heartfelt tribute will resonate with the audience and will make it genuinely memorable.

Once you have completed the initial draft, set it aside for a short time and then review it with fresh eyes. Make sure it flows smoothly, and the tone is appropriate for the occasion. You might find areas that could benefit from further details or need to be reworded. You may also want to consider sharing it with a close family member or friend for feedback, as they might have perspectives or memories to share that you may have overlooked.

Memorial services can be emotional, and it's normal to feel nervous about delivering a tribute. Practice by reading it aloud multiple times before the service. This will help you familiarize yourself with the flow, tone, and pacing, and increase your confidence when it's time to deliver your heartfelt message.

Imagine your father was a man who loved the outdoors and was passionate about teaching his children the importance of connecting with nature. Your tribute can begin with an anecdote that illustrates this passion, such as a memorable camping trip or a lesson he taught you during a hike. Transition into the values he instilled in you and then delve into some of the accomplishments he achieved throughout his life. Conclude by expressing your gratitude for having him as your father and the impact he had on shaping your life.

Writing a tribute to your dad is a deeply personal and emotional experience, but it can also be an honour and a privilege to celebrate his life and the love he shared. Remember to take your time, be honest, and don't be afraid to show your love and affection.

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List of essays on my father, essay on my father – my role model and my friend (essay 1 – 500 words), essay on my father – for kids and children (essay 2 – 750 words), essay on my father – long essay for school students (essay 3 – 800 words).

Audience: The below given essays are exclusively written for school students (Class 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 Standard).

Introduction:

My father is my hero and guide in my life. He is the one I look upon whenever I find myself in trouble. My father has been my guiding force for all my major decisions in life. In fact, I have never regretted adhering to his advice as it has always worked for me. He is a hardworking and passionate person. My father has a love for movies. Whenever he gets time, he just loves to watch an old movie. In fact, at times we just fight as to who gets control of the television. But at heart, we love to tease each other and play as well.

My father does not like to sit idle. At times, on holidays if he finds me and my sister doing nothing and just idling our time, he gives us some task or the other. He is also much organised and keeps all his documents in a properly organised manner.

My Father – My Role Model:

My father is my role model for many reasons. First and foremost I admire his passion for work. That is why he is so respected in his office as well. He is always there to help his colleagues even if it is not his work. In fact, one can always see him spending weekends helping others out. Moreover, my father is a simple man. He does not like expensive things and lives an easy and peaceful life. Also, he never shouts on anyone of us. I wonder if he ever gets angry on anything as he takes everything so calmly and takes his time to decide upon things.

My Father – My Friend:

My father is my friend as well. I can discuss everything with my father, even those that I dare not speak in front of my mother. I know that he shall keep it a secret and give the advice I need. He is the one whom I can rely upon blindly during any hour of need, and I know that he shall be there for me.

Importance of My Father in My Life:

My father plays an important role in the family. He is in fact considered as the head of the family. However, I feel that both father and mother have a distinctive role to play in bringing up their children. While on hand my mother has s soft heart, it is my father who shows courage and strength which his children will later on imbibe as their qualities. He can be firm at times, but be rest assured it is always for the benefit of the children.

Conclusion:

There is no doubt that my father’s role is vital in my life. His presence is vital for maintaining the balance and peace in my family. A father is the one who earns the badge of the stricter parent and whose denial of permission for anything means a lot to the children. I also admire my father and try to imbibe his qualities so that I become like him when I grow up.

My father is a person who takes care of my family and loves each one of us dearly. My father acts as the pillar of support and strength for my family.

My father is the person that I admire the most in my life. I can never forget all the childhood memories that I have with him. It is safe for me to say that my father is largely the reason behind my present joy and happiness. I can say that I am the person who I am today and the person that I am growing to be, is all because of the influence he has had and is having on me. He always makes time to play with me and catch up on all the happenings in my life even after the hard work of the day.

My father is one man who is very unique and different. I always feel lucky anytime I remember that he is my father knowing how he has done the very best for me in life. I always feel grateful that I have the opportunity to be his son and be a part of a wonderful family that has a great father like him. My father has shown himself to be a very peaceful and polite person. He seldom scolds me and he is always easy with me. What he tries to do is that he makes sure that I realise the mistake that I have made in a very polite way and helps me to get better and this has been working like magic for many years now.

My father is the leader and head of our family. He is always there for every member of the family to help us in times when we need his advice and direction in taking decisions. Anytime we have a problem, we take it to him, he tries to help us by sharing some of the problems that he also faced in the past that are quite similar to our problem and how he was able to overcome them. He also shares all of his achievements and drawbacks in life and tells us to learn from them.

My father has his personal online marketing business but he never insists any of his children to pursue a career in that same field so that we can take over after him. He does not even try to attract any of us to his business but he tries to teach how we can discover our own passion and fields of interest in life. He does his best to encourage us in the pursuance of our various dreams. I can boldly say that my dad is a very good dad and this is not as a result of him always helping me and being nice to me but because he shows great strength, knowledge, a good helping and nice nature. He also owns very good human relations skills.

My father’s parents were very poor when he was growing up but with hard work and patience, my father was able to become very rich. He uses this as an example to encourage me to always work hard.

I share all of my happy, sad and bad moments with him and he also does the same. He is always around to share with me all of his life experiences and how I can learn from them. My father also tells me all about his day and every event that occurred during the day. He is doing all his best to ensure that I grow up to become a very successful person that has good character and behaviour.

My father always teaches me ethics, humanity and etiquettes of life that can help me in future. My father is always ready and willing to help the people who are needy around us and he tells us that giving is the most important thing in life. My father also teaches my siblings and me how to be happy, healthy and fit throughout our lives.

My father has shown himself to be very good to all the members of my extended family. If anyone of us is facing a particular problem, my father is usually the first person we go to for advice and help. My father has over the years proven to be a person who has a very kind heart and I can boldly say that he is my best friend and my hero.

About My Father:

Appa was born in Coimbatore, the second son and third child in a family of 11 children. His father, my grandfather was a stern man, a respected civil engineer who worked for the colonial British government.

Appa attended the Rishi Valley School in Yercaud, founded on the learning philosophy of Jiddu Krishnamurthy. There he learned the value of discipline, respect for hard work, honesty, responsibility and constant learning. He studied electrical engineering at Banaras Hindu University and went on to join Voltas Limited’s air conditioning division. He worked there the rest of his life, and was regarded as brilliant and a genius.

My childhood memories of him are as a stern, strict and not very communicative man. He’d crack the most unhumorous Dad jokes and we’d all grimace and laugh dutifully.

He felt a deep and abiding sense of responsibility towards his own family of birth as well as his marital family. The modest salary he always earned would be divided between these two families, and since he was terrible at currying favour or promoting himself, he never rose within the ranks of Voltas and his income remained quite pathetic till he died. This officially made us a lower-middle class family and our childhoods were frugal, thrifty and austere. A little money meant a lot.

Despite these constraints, Appa planned our futures successfully. When his provident funds were released after his retirement, he used the entire amount, augmented by a bank loan, to buy a house in his two sons’ names. For the rest of our lives, we had a roof over our heads.

Why I like my father:

One of the most remarkable things about Appa was the number of things he was interested in. In Calcutta, he would spend hours outside a tailor’s shop watching him make clothes. After several months, he bought himself a Singer sewing machine. From then, all our clothes, including winter school uniforms, were stitched by him.

He taught himself carpentry — and constructed the sofa sets we used for decades.

He learned dry cleaning — and from then, we would go to school smelling of kerosene in winter.

He was an outstanding cook, and loved cooking. When my mother was immobilized with lymphatic TB, he’d cook breakfast, lunch and dinner for the family in the morning before leaving for work.

Best of all, he was a brilliant musician, gifted in playing the vichitra veena. He had his own Carnatic ‘band’ with a flutist and a mridangam player.

Things I Learned from My Father:

I have slowly realised how much of who I am was shaped by who he was. Like him, I never get bored, and remain fascinated by everything in life. I’m constantly active doing something constructive or educational. I am today two years younger than he was when he died but have started learning to play piano, understand search engine optimisation, UX design and painting.

I learned from him that generosity is a state of mind, not a state of wallet. The number of nameless, faceless poor people he had helped was long, as we learned only after he died. Never demeaning his beneficiaries with a handout, he invited them to repay at their time and speed, but made sure that they did, thus restoring their self-respect.

Without ever speaking about it, he has shown me what it means to be a father, and the meaning of selfless living.

A single incident sums up my relationship with my dad. He wanted me to join the IIT and become an engineer. I wanted to be a writer, a profession he disdained as having no future. Headstrong, in 1969, I stepped out of the train in which my family was relocating from Delhi to Bombay just as the whistle blew. I was bent on living my life my way.

My father, deeply upset, cut me off without a paisa, saying I could jolly well support myself if I was so confident about writing. And so I did, earning enough through writing for the evening papers to pay my rent, college fees and food. Six months later, my father, passing through Delhi in December, visited me to check how his strong-headed son was doing, and saw for himself that I was surviving well enough without borrowing or begging. He visibly swelled with pride.

He hugged me, in one action forgiving me but also forgiving himself. He used the 400 rupees he had received as a Christmas bonus to buy me utensils, a mattress, and other basics.

From that day, he would proudly say, “My son followed his heart rather than my head — and see what a fine job he has done.”

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Writing About My Father

The first thing I ever wrote that I was truly proud of was a letter to my father. I wrote it to him on Father’s Day. I can’t remember how old I was, maybe 17? It’s all so nebulous, that period of my life. What I remember is how moved I was writing my thanks to him and how he responded to that letter. He came to me, tears in his eyes, letter in his hand, and gave me a big hug and thanked me.

I remember him looking at me a little incredulously that day, like he couldn’t believe what I’d written. Not the content, which I think he already knew, but the way I expressed it. Hell, it surprised even me. He let my stepmom read the letter, and she came to me with tears in her eyes. I already knew that words were powerful conduits through which we can convey meaning and emotion — I just never knew I had that ability.

I give my mom most of the credit for my love of literature, but my dad was always encouraging me and appreciating my stories. I shared an account of a near-death experience on my sailboat with him, and he raved for weeks and months and years about how much he loved my telling of that adventure. He has encouraged me from the beginning. I look up to my father — have always thought of him as a real-life superhero — and so writing became a way to make him proud.

My dad was my best friend for most of my childhood. I knew this early on and celebrated it and bragged about it. How many other kids considered their father their best friend? I didn’t know many. But I would get up at the crack of dawn during the summer months to go farming with him. I would sit on his lap and steer his pickup truck. I would dip into his tobacco when he wasn’t looking. I would lean out the truck window and throw up soon after. I slept on the floor of the bathroom while he showered, back when I was five or six years old. I remember it like it was yesterday. He would hold his jeans by the waist, jump up in the air, and shove both feet through at the same time, all before he hit the ground. My dad could fly.

I fell in love with my wife Amber while talking about my dad. We were at dinner. Amber and I had just met that morning, had spent the day together out on a boat I was captaining at the time. The couple that owned the boat were sitting with us on the patio of this restaurant, and Amber was doing her psychologist trick of asking pointed questions and forcing us to answer them in turn. She asked who our hero was, and when it was my turn to respond, I started talking about my father. I got choked up. Amber reached under the table and squeezed my hand. She told me about her father. We fell in love.

It’s weird to be so close to my dad, to consider him my best friend even today, and realize that most of my books are about losing a father. My parents got divorced when I was eight or nine years old. My dad moved into a house down the street, and so began a life lived between two homes. A life of every-other-weekends. Often it was every weekend. We spent a lot of time together. It wasn’t like he was off on another planet, but you would never know that looking over my body of work.

The first book I ever wrote was about a girl named Molly who lost her dad. She spends four entire novels trying to find him, to be reunited with him. Juliette’s strained and distant relationship with her father is a central theme in Wool. The final scene of that book was written fairly early in the process — I think while writing part 2 of Wool. All of that plot and adventure culminates in what she decides to do on the final page. And then there’s Sand, where a father’s disappearance tears a family apart, where his absence looms larger than the night sky.

I don’t think any of this is an accident. I love my dad. I missed him. I think I spend a lot of time writing about how much I missed him. We didn’t have to be dysfunctional for that to motivate my art. We just were who we were.

One of my fondest childhood memories I have of my dad was during this freak snowstorm in Monroe, North Carolina. My dad knew people wouldn’t drive carefully enough with the roads covered in snow. So he threw a chain into the back of his pickup, grabbed two pairs of work gloves, bundled me up, and off we went, driving aimlessly around town. Sure enough, we came across cars in ditches, the owners stranded. This was before cell phones. Way before. Dad would pull up and tell these people that he’d have them out “in a jiffy.”

He’d let me out, and the two of us would spin the locks on the front tires to put the truck in four-wheel-drive. I was so proud that I knew how to do this. I was probably ten or twelve years old. I’d tug on those too-big gloves and wave him back as he put the truck in reverse and eased down into the ditch to line up with the front of the stricken car. He’d hand me the chain, and I’d dive down under the bumper, looking for something solid to wrap it around. I felt like a real man under there, with the grease and the mud, studying the hidden bits of machinery that make cars move. Dad would inch forward until the chain was tight; the truck would lurch and growl; but we always got the vehicles back on the road. My dad could do anything.

But it was what he did next that taught me my biggest lesson — it’s the thing that makes me strive to be like him every single day. The owners of these cars would fish a few bills out of their wallets, sometimes every bit of what they had in there, and try to pay my dad. And he always refused. Waved them off. Threw that chain back in the bed of the truck with a clack and rattle, knocked the snow off my jacket, told me to get back in and to mind the mud on my boots, and then we were off again, looking for someone else in trouble, not a care of our own between us.

I don’t thank my father enough for inspiring me to be a better person. I write about him in all of my books. Always missing. Always distant. But that wasn’t how he lived. He was always there and still is. I guess even with all that time together, it was never enough. And that’s what I write about.

37 responses to “Writing About My Father”

Beautifully expressed.

Thank you for sharing so much of yourself, Hugh. In so many ways.

A wonderful account, thank you.

As a father to two girls, the younger being a senior in high school this year, I often reminisce about the concerts, the sporting events, and the little gifts and hugs they have given me over the years. I remember how my chest swelled with pride to bursting on seeing their accomplishments. And how my eyes teared up with joy at knowing these were my children.

Though my family was together for my childhood, I didn’t have a good relationship with my dad. We were too much alike in the wrong ways I think and we butted heads often in my teen years. I lost him in an accident at home just after I graduated high school at seventeen. I wonder sometimes if time would have healed our relationship — if he felt about me the way I’ve felt about my daughters.

Tell your kids you love them, and that you’re proud of them. Every day.

Great account of your father. I like how the story of the chains in the snow made into the hurricane.

Youve become an inspiration yourself. Keep writing. We want whatever’s next.

Mike http://www.cindercast.com

I’m so glad that your dad cried that day after reading your letter, and you saw the impact that your words had on people.

Hugh Howey, you made me cry.

Not the tearing up, sniffing, thinking “OMG that’s beautiful” (although it is) kind of cry. But the “son-of-a-bitch I’m sitting here blatting” kind of cry.

The fact that you can be so open, can express your feelings, love, and admiration so openly-THIS is what makes you able to create characters who readers fall in love with; and even love to hate. You are able to dream up great stories with your mind and your intellect shapes eloquent sentences that move people. But your heart is what allows you to connect. Thanks for that.

I too adored my father and unfortunately he died way, way too young. Almost half a lifetime ago. It still feels like yesterday. I’m not sharing that for sympathy or anything; just to say thanks for making me think of my dad. I hope your family blesses you for many years to come.

Hugh, this is very moving and wonderfully expressed. I was sitting in the cafe with tears in my eyes reading it. It struck me as a son, but also as a teacher. In China teachers become somewhat parental figures, even for university students, which gives a teacher a lot of power in a kid’s life. That’s why when I appreciate a student’s work, I always show it with my whole being to encourage them the way your father did.

Also, this instantly inspired me to want to write about my own father, but there are so many complications to trying to get a bead on a man, as it should be. So, I quickly wrote this to express my complicated feelings, and hopefully this will be a jumping off point for a future piece about him. Thank you.

—————————- Insect by WuWei Wilson

My father was a killer at one time in his life. He killed the grandfathers of people who I would later go on to love, to teach, to share my deepest feelings with. Somehow his path of pointing a gun, led to my path of pointing a word of friendship. But the blood on my father’s hands stained his whole life.

My father was a lover. He had love in his heart and tried to share it as best he could with everyone he met. Especially those weaker and more vulnerable to life’s crushing thumb. He taught me to love and be open to the grandchildren of the the people he once killed.

My father was fighter who thought most problems could be solved by force of muscle, voice or will. He would punish the bad in his eyes. He would use fist to fight his foe. Belt to punish his brood. He would see himself as righteous anger in the name of good.

My father was a philosopher. He knew that he could not change others in any large way, and you could fight and argue but in the end you just needed to do right by them and by you. Be good, spread that good. See evil, but don’t let it make you evil. Acknowledge there is very little distinction between the two.

Skin of stone. Heart of glass.

Blood on face. Tears in eyes.

A shout in mouth. A sigh in throat.

Hands in fists. Arms giving hug.

My father is still alive. He is still all these things in some small way, but now he is mostly just tired. Although I can still see the man there, the man that has been made by contradictions. The way life is made by dualities.

A honest man will always be an insect. Wallowing in shit one moment, enjoying the view from the top of a flower the next. My father was, is, always will be an insect. As am I.

Hugh, this piece in itself is inspiring. Your dad sounds like a great guy. Thanks for sharing a little bit of him with us.

Very nice, Hugh, thanks for sharing this. Having met & chatted to you, albeit briefly, I can tell your father would be delighted at how his boy turned out, and how you are not only writing great books but in the vanguard of a publishing revolution. Sharing your publishing experiences will act act like snow-chains and will help draw-out writers who are being sucked in to the quicksand of the “traditional” ways.

You made me cry. Lately, I feel like I don’t have the words I need. I feel like I should be saying all kinds of important things to my dad, but just thinking about it makes me cry. I try to show him, through my actions, how important he is to me, because my words are gone.

Absolutely wonderful story and a beautiful tribute, not only your family and Amber, but to “love.” Continued success and good health to you in 2014, Hugh. Jerry :)

I am a mom of two children, one of which is graduating high school in June. I have to say your story is inspirational in a way that you probably did not even consider. As a mom or dad there is also never enough time with our children either. I stayed at home mom when my children were little and I have always worked a job that enabled me to be home when they were home. There are days when it takes my breath away to look at a picture of them from when they were little because it seems like the picture was taken days ago instead of years. I have often wondered what it felt like to look at old pictures for parents who did not spend much time with their kids. I can’t decide if I think it would be easier or harder.

Beautiful piece. Both my parents are gone and I have friends with parents still living who often don’t want to spend time with them. It hurts me to hear it. It brings all types of tears to my eyes — tears about missing my parents and the fun we had, tears for my friends who don’t realize that precious time is slipping away and you can’t get it back, tears for their parents who surely miss them.

This touched my heart. I know your mom and dad. I used to hang out at your grandparents house, Hugh and Cutie’s, while I was in high school. I had a crush on your mom, but she was a few years older than me. I always thought Hamp was a lucky man. Later on, I even bought the land that I live on from him, on Wesley Chapel Road. You dad is a great guy! Just hate that he has moved from here. It is so refreshing to read what you have written here about him. So proud that you are doing great as writer. Keep it you. You make Union County proud!!!

Thank you for going into the ditch for us, Hugh. Just… thank you.

Beautiful. You made me cry-but in a good way. Thank you for sharing that with us, Hugh. Your love for your father does bleed through into your work, and it is a wonderful thing.

This is wonderful. Thank you for sharing.

Hugh, he is still that way 100%. You are both blessed.

Thank you for this gem, Hugh. You’ve crafted a perfect synopsis of who you are and how you came to be, probably not your goal, but there it is :)

That was very moving, Hugh. Like others, I cried when I read it. I wish I’d known my father the way you knew yours. My father died when I was 5, and at my age (67) I still miss him, even though I hardly knew him.

Your father sounded like a great man. :D

I remember getting out to turn those things on the front wheels just like that on my dad’s truck!! But never for the reason you describe. What incredible memories and what a truly good man. I suspect your apple didn’t fall far.

” I guess even with all that time together, it was never enough. ” that says it all about my dad. I am almost the age he was when he died. Fify-nine, way too young and so much has happened since then. Thanks for writing about your dad and reminding me how much I love mine

My husband and I have know Hamp, Hugh’s father, for a life time as we have know and loved Hugh for his lifetime! We love both his parents, but this essay about Hamp and his wife Sherry are so accurate! Hugh is a blending of this loving parents, but these times and experience with Hamp are profound! We share many good memories and life stories with Hugh and Hamp. Both are amazing men who are the salt of the earth and are grounded in all the right values for living the good and honest life. We are so proud of you, Hugh! Walt and Cookie

What a wonderful tribute to a wonderful man. Hamp is everything you described and truly a loyal friend and neighbor! We are blessed to have both your dad and step-mom and our lives. Thank you for sharing.

You, my dear, are a mensch. I’m proud to know you.

Absolutely beautiful, Hugh! Made me quite teary. Your dad sounds like a wonderful man! And I’m sure he’s very proud of you! :)

Hey Hugh. Thanks for sharing. That touches my heart, both as a new father imagining how important I can be to my son and as someone who can relate. My dad was and still is very important to me. I grew up with my mom while he was in another state getting his medical residency finished, but when we moved back in with him, he was working like 80 hours a week. I cherished everything we could do together and enjoy together, from music to sports. He made up a cowboy character and told us bedtime stories about him. I’m sure that influenced my love of stories. I remember his excitement when I was old enough to read and get The Cather in the Rye, and how he took me to the bookstore to get it, telling me about how it was a banned book and me feeling a rush of discovery to have his permission and encouragement to read something that the system said was bad.

They got divorced when I was twelve and it was really hard. I moved in with him and when he soon after lost his job, we had my teenage years to finally bond, working together at a pizza place and having more time to chat and hang out. His self-admitted failures frustrated and saddened me at the time, and pushed me to not make the same mistakes–for both of us. A big part of who I am is influenced by seeing those and trying to do better, even though I have all the tendencies that he had which overpowered his good intentions and caused problems. This journey of leap frogging our parents may be common, but it is still fascinating and emotional. We love them for their efforts and they love us for the same. We (hopefully) forgive them for where they messed up and see in them the same idiosyncricies which could lead to the same results for us if we’re not careful. Likewise, they see in us those traits and lovingly try and coach us to be better than they were.

I’d comment about that and what you’ve written in Sand, but I don’t want to spoil anything. I told you how much I loved the sunrise scene. I love both parents in that book and the way the family unit is explored emotionally. Same as in the Silo Saga. I appreciate you sharing because of how much depth it adds to the reading experience, knowing you better as the storyteller.

Have a beautiful day, Hugh. Thanks again for telling us your stories.

Warms my heart to read about such a loving father and generous human being – enjoyed it!

My grandfather was T.M. Howey. He was from mineral springs area. But left to work for the railroad. His home was in Richmond. Anyway, I think we could be related. My Mother was adopted but her real mother was a Sutton, also from that area of Union County. So I am curious if you are a cousin… Polly

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Essay on My Father: Usually, people talk about a mother’s love and affection, in which a father’s love often gets ignored. A mother’s love is talked about repeatedly everywhere, in movies, in shows and more. Yet, what we fail to acknowledge is the strength of a father which often goes unnoticed. Father’s a blessing which not many people have in their lives. It would also be wrong to say that every father is the ideal hero for their kids because that is not the case. However, I can vouch for my father without any second thoughts when it comes to being an ideal person.

My Father is Different!

As everyone likes to believe that their father is different, so do I. Nonetheless, this conviction is not merely based on the love I have for him, but also because of his personality. My father owns a business and is quite disciplined in all aspects of life. He is the one who taught me to always practice discipline no matter what work I do.

Most importantly, he has a jovial nature and always makes my mother laugh with his silly antics even after 27 years of marriage. I completely adore this silly side of him when he is with his loved ones. He tries his best to fulfill all our wishes but also maintains the strictness when the need arises.

One of the best things I love about my father is that he has always kept a very safe and open home environment. For instance, my siblings and I can talk about anything with him without the fear of being scolded or judged. This has helped us not to lie, which I have often noticed with my friends.

In addition, my father has an undying love for animals which makes him very sympathetic towards them. He practices his religion devotedly and is very charitable too. I have never seen my father misbehave with his elders in my entire life which makes me want to be like him even more.

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My father has taught me the meaning of love in the form of a rose he gifts to my mother daily without fail. This consistency and affection encourage all of us to treat them the same way. All my knowledge of sports and cars, I have derived from my father. It is one of the sole reasons why I aspire to be a cricket player in the future.

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Losing a father is a heartbreaking and life-changing experience. If you’re writing the eulogy for the funeral, you might be wondering where to begin.

To craft a eulogy celebrating his life , there are 12 simple steps to follow to help you acknowledge the most important aspects of his time on Earth.

1. Find a Quiet Place

Consider going someplace quiet. Try being in nature, like a park or near a lake. You could also try a library. If you wish to be indoors, try finding a space in your place that is relaxing for you and has little to no distractions.

Proper preparation is key before starting the actual eulogy, even though it might be difficult shortly after a death . Putting together an impactful eulogy about your parent requires undivided concentration. Finding a calming spot will help you gather your thoughts.

2. Reflect on Memories

Start thinking about memories you’ve had with your dad. Try to think of positive memories that are easily recallable. You should be able to describe in detail where you were, what you were doing, and how it made you feel with your dad.

Start from your earliest memory of your father and progress to the most recent memories you had with him. Be sure to write them down as you recall them. 

3. Gather Stories & Anecdotes

Consider collecting other memories from family and friends. Talk to people he was close with and ask about their most fond memories of time they spent together. Write down the ones you wish to include in the eulogy.

Gathering stories is not always limited to just friends and family. Some examples of other people to include could be co-workers, someone he’s helped in the past, or people from a community he was involved with.

4. Consider His Values & Lessons

If you need help writing about your dad’s character, evaluate his values and the lessons he has taught you for inspiration. This is important because they’re what made your dad unique and special.

Recall moments in your life with him that made his character stand out. What are some topics that he expressed his opinion on? What was he a firm believer in? Also, try to remember the lessons and skills he taught you. What do those things say about him as a person?

5. Acknowledge His Relationships

Take note of the people your dad spent the most time with. How would you describe his friends and loved ones? Ask yourself, “What qualities did they see in my dad?”

Understanding your dad’s relationships with other people can help you learn more about how they perceived him. The types of people he surrounded himself with can reveal details about his character that could be worth putting in his eulogy.

6. Write Down His Passions and Hobbies

Taking note of the hobbies and interests he was passionate about adds unique details to make the eulogy more compelling.

Try to recall things that he enjoyed. This can be anything from building LEGO sets to being a big sports fan. Including these details will add uniqueness to his eulogy.

7. Consider Significant Life Events

Life events are important because they are what shape our identity. They range from milestones to things that significantly changed his life.

Remember, it’s important to stay positive. Avoid negative life events unless they’re tied to a positive outcome.

8. Decide How You Want to Organize Your Dad’s Eulogy

Get a general idea of how you want to organize the eulogy. Typically, it’s common for a eulogy to start from events in chronological order (from childbirth to adulthood), but you can be flexible in where and how you want to start it.

If you want to be creative, use a theme. For example, if your dad was hardworking, make the theme about loyalty or determination and include relevant content. If he was a loving, sympathetic person, then make the theme about love and how his life helped you to define it. 

If you choose a theme, include stories and examples that match it.

9. Create An Outline

Creating an outline of your paper will help you brainstorm and stay focused. Using the information that you have, arrange the topics in an order that flows and structurally makes sense to the reader. This will also help ensure you stay on topic.

If you’re struggling to develop your own outline, check online. There are many different types of eulogy templates that you can find through Google to get inspiration from.

10. Start With An Engaging Opening

Starting with an engaging opening can help get your audience’s attention. One recommendation is to start with a quote from your dad’s favorite movie or book. Another idea could be to start with a story about a special moment with you and your dad.

When telling a story, be as descriptive as possible. Try to make your audience feel as if they were there at that very moment with your dad. Include details about the environment to help people picture the scene.

11. Incorporate Humor at Appropriate Moments

Humor can be a good way to keep the audience engaged and lift spirits during a time of grief. It also make sense if your dad was known to make people laugh, which can help remind people of him in a positive way.

Be sure not to go too overboard with the humor. The way to use humor in a eulogy is to tie it to a story about your dad. Remember, the eulogy needs to be about him.

12. End With a Meaningful Conclusion

Typically, the conclusion in the eulogy is where the writer says their final goodbye and ends with a tribute. Some common ways people like to end is through a slideshow, a farewell song, or an emotional quote or poem.

If you need help determining how to conclude your eulogy, think about your dad’s values. If he was religious, consider ending with a prayer. If he was passionate about music, pay tribute by playing his favorite songs with a slideshow. Do or say something that you know will make your dad proud.

How to Complete and Deliver Your Dad’s Eulogy

At this stage, your eulogy should be about 90% done. This is where you add the finishing touches to make it perfect.

1. Edit Your Dad’s Eulogy

Proofreading your dad’s eulogy must be done before presenting it on the day of the funeral. Chances are, there will be grammar mistakes once you finish. Failing to take the time to edit those mistakes will likely catch you off guard when you’re reading it.

The best tip for proofreading a eulogy is to read it out loud. Doing so will make it easier to identify grammar mistakes and fix any sentences or phrases that don’t work well. Having someone else proofread it for you can also be an effective method, too.

2. Rehearse It Beforehand

Practicing your eulogy is crucial, especially if public speaking isn't something you're comfortable with. By reading it aloud by yourself first, it will make you feel more confident when delivering the speech at the funeral.

Presentation Trainer, Olivia Mitchell , advises:

“Rehearse your speech several times so as to desensitize yourself to your own words.”

Master most of the content before presenting it in front of others. Then, share it with friends or relatives for feedback and guidance. Continuous practice turns into a second-nature activity over time, making your delivery easier when you present it.

3. Be Emotionally Balanced

Chances are you will be very emotional on the day of the funeral. This will make the delivery of your eulogy challenging.

The important thing to know is not to worry. It’s normal if you tear up and cry. People will sympathize with you. If it happens, let it out and try to collect yourself so you can resume again. A good suggestion is to stop and focus on your breathing if you feel the urge coming.

How Long Should a Eulogy For Your Dad Be?

The average length of a eulogy is between 3 to 6 minutes . Eulogies are generally meant to be short and to capture only the most significant events of a person’s life. They are not meant to tell a person’s whole life’s story.

The main reason you should keep a eulogy short is because you risk losing your audience’s attention. When it goes on for too long, people start to lose interest. You do not want your audience's last experience of your dad to be negative.

With that said, there can also be incredible eulogies lasting 8-10 minutes. What’s most important is that it comes from the heart. 

If you have a longer-than-usual eulogy, bring it up with your funeral organizer to confirm if there is enough time in the schedule to fit it in.

Short Eulogy Examples for Dad

Below are a couple of examples of eulogy excerpts made by a son and one made by a daughter written for their dad. They will help give you an idea of what yours could look like.

Son’s Eulogy to Dad

“Today, we gather to celebrate the life of my father, a person who has been the main influential figure in my life for his remarkable achievements and ambition of leadership.

My dad was not just a parent, but a symbol of what hard work and determination can accomplish.

One of the things I admired most about him was his strong sense of determination. He, as an entrepreneur, had to deal with many people shooting down his ideas. Often, he was told he and his ideas were no good. ‘Don’t quit your day job,’ one person said to him.

For every person who doubted him, he became more energized with perseverance. He would spend hours of the night researching and planning what he needed to do to start up his own business.

Eventually, he found someone who saw the potential in his ideas and gave him a chance by loaning him the money he needed to start his business. Once my dad was given the funding to prove himself, he eventually became the CEO of his small start-up tech company.

Through his example, he taught me never to doubt myself and my own abilities. Curiosity is what drives innovation. Innovation is earned through hard work and determination. I used these life lessons to help me achieve my goals and many more to come.

Daughter’s Euogy to Dad

“Thank you all for coming here today, for my dad. Today, I am deeply honored to be able to share my dad’s stories, and that shows why he was arguably one of the nicest guys you or anyone would ever know. 

My dad was like no other. He was my father, but also a friend I could be open and honest with during times of uncertainty. As a licensed therapist, he knew how to listen and always had the right things to say to help me out of my downward spiral of negative self-doubt.

Since the day he was born, he always had a big heart and desire to be there for others. He told me about the moment he knew his purpose was to be there for people. It was when he was in first grade, when one of his classmates fell and scraped his knee and was in pain.

While he cried and the other kids watched, my dad came up to him and hugged him and wouldn't let go until the teacher arrived. This kind of loving behavior earned him recognition from teachers and his fellow classmates, but he didn't do it for recognition. He did it simply out of love.

His compassionate heart is what led him throughout his journey in life. He met my mother on a mission trip in Africa, married her, and had me and my younger brother.

Ever since I was little, my dad constantly told me how valuable I am and what good I can do for a world that needs healing.

Even during times when I would make bad decisions, he never would ever hold a grudge. He would welcome me into his arms and say, ‘I forgive you.’

My dad has since been what's anchored me in my religious beliefs. He may be gone now, but he will forever be in my heart until the day I meet him and his loving embrace again.”

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs):

What is the best opening line for a eulogy.

There are many different ways to open a eulogy. A common way to start is to state your name, how you are related to the person, and how they were important to you. If you want to be more creative, start with a story or quote to set the tone and theme of the eulogy.

If you’re struggling to find a good opening line, here’s a generic opener: "We gather here today to celebrate a life well-lived, that of [Name], who touched us all with his/her love and kindness."

What should you avoid saying in a eulogy?

Eulogies should be positive and about the person who passed. Things you should never bring up are grudges, past arguments, their flaws, or any kind of negative memories towards them. Focus on the positive and make it about a celebration of their life.

What makes a beautiful eulogy?

A powerful eulogy captures the essence of the person who’s passed and is done so with emotion. Active storytelling can help your audience picture exactly how they were as a person and give the sense that their spirit is with them in the room.

How do you deliver a powerful eulogy?

Delivering a powerful eulogy simply requires time, patience and dedication. Devote time to collecting unique details about the deceased while writing with clear intent and emotion. Making edits and active rehearsing are also crucial in delivering a powerful eulogy.

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Writing the Life and Times of My Father – Late Special Senior Apostle Sylvester Anele Njoku

Photo booth/stand at the funeral of Sp. Snr. Ap. S. A. Njoku

By Dr. Sarah Chidiebere Joe

My father, Late Special Senior Apostle Sylvester Anele Njoku went to be with the Lord on the 29 th of November, 2020. Although he had been ill for a while, the news of his death was still a surprise. For our family and many other friends, acquaintances and a host of extended relatives, Papa was an enigma and a force of nature. Therefore, somewhere in all our minds, we never quite imagined that one day, we will get the news of his final departure to be with the Lord.

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After putting into consideration a wide range of factors, we reached the conclusion that we needed at least one year to prepare for his funeral. At the time, most persons frowned at the idea but we knew the challenges before us and stood our ground. Many meetings were held, some went well, others quite chaotic – a type of chaos that every polygamous family knows and understands too well.

During one of the meetings, the new head of the family said: “Dr, Sarah, I need you to take on the responsibility of writing Papa’s biography.” Although I don’t quite understand why my siblings address me as Dr Sarah, I simply said Okay. But later that day, I began to question whether I could effectively capture Papa’s essence into words especially in ways that people could truly resonate with. I stayed awake for a few nights thinking about how to approach the task because for me, it was really important I got it right.

The inspiration to write Papa’s biography came after I spent an entire day reminiscing on my time with my father. The most significant that came to mind was a four-day journey I made with Papa to Funtua, Katsina State where I, at age 10, had secured an admission to study at Federal Government Girls’ College, Bakori, Funtua, Katsina State, Nigeria.

Our four-day rail trip was special in many respects. For the very first time, I had the rare opportunity of listening to the story of my father and by so doing began to construct a vision of life for myself. As I listened to him, I garnered an all-important lesson – All Things Are Possible If You Believe. Papa battled many challenges and, in the end, won each time.  He had very limited opportunities but always made the most of them. Even though our journey was fraught with many upheavals, he remained optimistic that that we would get to our destination safely and on time. And, yes, we did.

Lastly, during this journey, I understood why my father loved education and was willing to trade off anything to ensure that all fifteen of his children acquired the best. Knowing this, I resolved in my spirit to make Papa proud by obtaining the highest degrees in education. Today, I am proud I have done it and this is only the beginning!

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By the end of the day, I had remembered enough to start drafting Papa’s biography. I also drew up a list of persons to interview, to help me fill in any blanks. Chief on that list was my mother and Papa’s first wife, the lovely Mother-In-Israel Anna Njoku – I call her Lady Anne. Of course, Mama had a lot to say especially regarding their she and Papa’s “love” – a type of love that I have over the years found really hard to understand.

In three days, I had written the first draft and sent it off to some key members of the family for their comments. They were happy with the outcome and approved it for printing and publishing.

Biographies are essentially written to give us a brief insight into people’s lives, their challenges, failures and successes. They are also designed to inspire and encourage us to be better.  Today, I invite you to take a journey with me through the life and times of the man I described as “ Ogba aka ari ngara” – One who makes something out of nothing .   I have also laced this piece with images from Papa’s three-day funeral. Please enjoy!

The BIOGRAPHY of LATE SPECIAL SENIOR APOSTLE SYLVESTER ANELE NJOKU

Late Special Senior Apostle Sylvester Anele Njoku is an epitome of success borne of a rare combination of Tenacity, Hard work, and Love for God and Family. Papa, as he was called by his children, was born into the great Umuagunanna Family of Egbelubi Ndashi in Etche Local Government Area of River State on the 7 th of July 1942.  His father and Mother were successful farmers and were thus, revered and honoured by members of the Etche community.

Early Life & Career

Sylva, as he was fondly called by his relatives and friends loved to study. Although he lost his father to the cold hands of death at the very tender age of two (2), he did everything possible including taking on menial jobs in order to successfully complete his Primary education. Upon completion of Standard Six, he obtained his First School Leaving Certificate. While he was not able to further his education, he worked tirelessly over the years to ensure all his children received quality education. This, for him, was a prime objective. Papa lived to see all fifteen of his children, whom he loved so dearly, graduate from top tertiary institutions in Nigeria and beyond.

Upon completion of his Primary education, Sylva travelled to Owerri, the Imo State capital to serve as a Cook to Reverend Fathers of the Roman Catholic faith. During his time there, he gained an exquisite culinary skill, one which endeared him to his wives and children. His children describe his Okro soup as second to none!

After successfully serving Catholic Priests, on the advice of his family, he journeyed to Enugu, where he worked with the Nigerian Railway Service. While in Enugu, Sylva joined the Eternal Sacred Order of the Cherubim and Seraphim. A church he was completely devoted to and served in many capacities, including as the Provincial Chairman of Etche Province.

Sylva returned to Rivers State just before the Nigerian Civil war broke out.  Post-civil war, he relocated to Port Harcourt, the Rivers State capital, where he secured a job with the Rivers State Government as a Radio Operator in the state’s Radio Room.

He retired early from Civil Service to venture into the world of Business. He established SACO Nigeria Limited and from this platform, he served as a Rivers State Government contractor. He secured and executed many school-building contracts. He was also tasked with supplying food and beverages to many schools including Government Girls’ Secondary School, Ndashi, Etche. Sylva also served as a contractor to Shell Petroleum Development Company, Risonpalm Limited and many firms in Rivers State.

Politics and Community Service

Papa saw politics as an instrument for positive social change. As a man with strong leadership qualities, he decided to not only actively participate in politics, but to also vie for political office as Councillor under the Social Democratic Party (SDP). His outspokenness and bravery made him a very distinguished, respected and loved member of his immediate family and community. It was commonplace to find Papa speaking up for the less privileged, widows, and the marginally displaced. His home was a place of refuge for family members, friends and strangers.

Final Moments

Papa fell ill in 2012 and was soon after, flown out of the country to the United Kingdom for medical treatment by his most precious daughter, Late Mrs. Nenne Ordu. Papa had another battle with his health in 2020. He finally went to be with the Lord on the 29 th of November 2020, while hospitalised at the Rivers State University Hospital, Port Harcourt, Rivers State.

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Sounds like a great man. Great writing too… sincere. I’m sure that Papa is smiling at this piece. Rest on Papa!!!

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The father of 20-year-old Thomas Matthew Crooks reportedly said he is trying to figure out “what the hell is going on” as his son was identified as former President Donald Trump’s attempted assassin.

Matthew Crooks wouldn’t provide details about his son and wanted to “wait until I talk to law enforcement” before speaking out on the horrific shooting, the elder Crooks  told CNN on Saturday night .

Thomas Crooks was shot and killed after he opened fire at Trump’s campaign rally in Butler, Pennsylvania.

Crooks’ bullet grazed the 45th president’s right ear as he killed a male spectator and critically injured two others.

Crooks had set himself up on the roof of a manufacturing plant more than 130 yards away from the stage.

A counter-sniper team, which sources told The Post killed the shooter,  returned fire from the roof of another building  close to where Trump was located — behind the audience stands.

Follow The Post’s latest stories on the assassination attempt against former President Donald Trump:

• Trump says he ‘felt the bullet ripping through my skin’ in first statement since assassination attempt
• Donald Trump urges the nation to not let ‘evil win’ and to ‘fear not’ after shooting
• Gunman behind attempted assassination of Trump had head blown off by Secret Service, sources say; rally-goer killed
• Trump shooter Thomas Matthew Crooks was loner ‘relentlessly’ bullied in high school: classmate
• How Trump’s split-second head turn may have saved his life from assassin’s bullet
• Ex-volunteer fire chief Corey Comperatore ID’d as Trump sniper victim, shielded his daughter from assassin’s bullets
• Search for Trump shooter’s motive delayed by explosives found in home and car: sources

Keep up to date with The Post’s live blog on the assassination attempt on Trump

The would-be assassin was a registered Republican but donated $15 to the Progressive Turnout Project in 2021, a Democrat-aligned political action committee.

Everything we know about Trump assassination attempt

• Former President Donald Trump was targeted by a shooter during a campaign rally in Pennsylvania
• Trump’s face was grazed by a bullet during the shooting
• The gunman and one bystander have been killed
• President Biden addressed the nation and referred to the shooting as sick, saying he “tried to get ahold of Donald”
• Exclusive: First photos of Thomas Matthew Crooks emerge after assassination attempt
• Donald Trump urges the nation to not let ‘evil win’ and to ‘fear not’ after shooting
• World leaders condemn ‘political violence’ at Trump rally: ‘Can’t take anything for granted’

Records indicate Crooks lived in the town of Bethel Park, Pa., approximately 45 miles south of the Butler Farm Show grounds where the shooting took place.

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What we know about the Trump assassination attempt and the suspect

Former President Donald Trump was shot during a rally in Pennsylvania on Saturday. He was immediately shielded and taken to safety after his ear was injured. Details are emerging about how it happened and the identity of the shooter, Thomas Matthew Crooks , 20.

President Joe Biden delivered an address from the Oval Office Sunday night and said he was grateful Trump was not seriously hurt.

Here’s what we know.

Where did it happen?

The shooting took place at a presidential campaign rally in Butler, Pennsylvania , a city in the western part of the state about 35 miles north of Pittsburgh.

What happened?

About six minutes into Trump’s speech, the former president could be seen clutching his ear after popping noises rang out over the rally. Trump ducked to the ground as several Secret Service agents rushed to the stage and surrounded him on all sides. There were screams from onlookers as the scene unfolded.

Roughly a minute later, agents helped Trump get up from the ground and stand. He held up his fist to the crowd, prompting cheers from supporters. Several agents then rushed him off the stage and escorted him into a vehicle.

Blood could be seen on Trump’s ear and on the side of his face. He later said on his social media site, Truth Social, that a bullet “pierced the upper part of my right ear.”

According to preliminary reports, which could change as the crime scene is processed, eight shots were fired by the shooter, an official said.

Trump was talking about President Joe Biden’s policies on immigration when shots were fired.

Was anyone else hurt? 

One spectator died and two others were critically wounded, Pennsylvania state Police Lt. Col. George Bivens said.

The man who died was 50-year-old former firefighter Corey Comperatore, Pennsylvania Gov. Josh Shapiro said Sunday. He said that Comperatore, who he called a hero, moved to protect his wife and two daughters when gunshots were heard at the rally.

The two people who were wounded were David Dutch, 57, of New Kensington, Pennsylvania, and James Copenhaver, 74, of Moon Township, Pennsylvania. Both are being treated at Allegheny General Hospital in Pittsburgh and are listed as being in stable condition.

Witnesses described hearing loud popping noises, with one person saying they saw someone who was shot in the back of the head and another person who said she saw someone “bleeding profusely.”

Rep. Ronny Jackson, R-Texas, said in a statement that his nephew was injured in the shooting. Jackson said that his family was seated near Trump and that after they heard shots, his nephew realized something had grazed and cut his neck.

He said his nephew’s injury was not serious and “he is doing well.”

Was it an assassination attempt? Which agencies are investigating?

Law enforcement is investigating the incident as an assassination attempt.

“This evening, we had what we’re calling an assassination attempt against our former president, Donald Trump,” said Kevin Rojek, special agent in charge of FBI’s Pittsburgh field office.

The FBI is investigating it as an act of domestic terrorism. The agency is leading efforts and working alongside the Secret Service and state and local law enforcement. In the aftermath of the shooting, the FBI deployed investigative agents, bomb technicians and evidence response personnel.

Rojek asked that witnesses to the shooting contact the FBI.

Who is the shooter? What was the motive?

The FBI identified the shooter as 20-year-old Thomas Matthew Crooks of Bethel Park, Pennsylvania. He was killed at the scene.

“We do not currently have an identified motive, although our investigators are working tirelessly to attempt to identify what that motive was,” Rojek said.

A senior law enforcement official directly briefed on the matter said the nature of the shooting suggests political ideology as motive but that there nothing definitive known at the time. The FBI conducted a preliminary analysis of Crooks’ phone but have not found anything to indicate motive, according to a senior U.S. law enforcement official.

Crooks used a semi-automatic rifle, based on what was found at the scene, three senior U.S. law enforcement officials said. FBI officials said that the weapon he used is believed to have been bought by his father, though they don’t have any additional information right now on how he got it. More than a dozen guns were also found in a search of the Crooks family home, according to four senior officials. The family is cooperating with investigators, an official said.

Law enforcement officials found a number of suspicious canisters or containers in Crooks’ vehicle, which was left near the rally, but it was unclear if they were functional as incendiary or explosive devices, two officials say.

The shooter was part of an area gun club, The Clairton Sportsmen’s Club. At its range in Clairton, the club has facilities for skeet shooting, high-power rifle exercises and archery practice.

Voter records from Pennsylvania listed a person with the same name, address and birth date as a registered Republican.

He did not have any affiliation with the U.S. military, according to the Department of Defense.

It was not known whether the shooter was acting alone or in coordination with others. There does not appear to be any evidence currently that the shooting had any link to a foreign actor, according to a U.S. official.

Where was the shooter? Did the shooter get past security?  

Crooks fired several shots from a nearby rooftop during the rally. The rooftop was outside the security perimeter established by the Secret Service, three senior law enforcement officials told NBC News.

Rally-goers alerted local police of a suspicious person near the magnetometer area, two senior officials said. They tried to search for the suspicious person, believed to be Crooks, but could not find him in the crowd, the officials said.

Two municipal officers also tried to approach Crooks shortly before he opened fire, according to two senior officials. It is unclear where that took place.

Crooks’ father called the police after the shooting to say he was worried that his son and his AR rifle were missing, according three senior officials.

What have we heard from Trump?

Trump first posted about the incident on Truth Social.

“I was shot with a bullet that pierced the upper part of my right ear. I knew immediately that something was wrong in that I heard a whizzing sound, shots, and immediately felt the bullet ripping through the skin. Much bleeding took place, so I realized then what was happening. GOD BLESS AMERICA!” he wrote.

He expressed gratitude to the Secret Service and law enforcement for their quick response. He added, “Most importantly, I want to extend my condolences to the family of the person at the Rally who was killed, and also to the family of another person that was badly injured.”

“It is incredible that such an act can take place in our Country. Nothing is known at this time about the shooter, who is now dead,” he wrote.

What have we heard from Trump’s family?

Melania Trump released a statement Sunday describing the fear she felt seeing the incident unfold and thanking the Secret Service agents and law enforcement who responded. She also offered sympathy for the victims.

“A monster who recognized my husband as an inhuman political machine attempted to ring out Donald’s passion — his laughter, ingenuity, love of music, and inspiration,” she wrote in the statement. “The core facets of my husband’s life — his human side — were buried below the political machine.”

She encouraged people to look beyond partisan politics: “Let us not forget that differing opinions, policy, and political games are inferior to love.”

Trump’s eldest daughter, Ivanka Trump, condemned the attack in a statement on X , thanking people for their prayers. “I am grateful to the Secret Service and all the other law enforcement officers for their quick and decisive actions today,” she wrote. “I continue to pray for our country.”

“I love you Dad, today and always,” she added.

Trump’s eldest son, Donald Trump Jr., said in a statement through his spokesperson that he spoke to his father over the phone Saturday and that he is in “great spirits.” “He will never stop fighting to save America, no matter what the radical left throws at him,” Trump Jr. said.

Their brother Eric Trump tweeted a picture of his father pumping his fist in the air after the shooting. “This is the fighter America needs!” the post read.

Has Biden responded?

In his address from the Oval Office , Biden shared his condolences to those who were hurt and championed the values of democracy. "The higher the stakes, the more fervent the passions become," he said. "This places an added burden on each of us to ensure that no matter how strong, our convictions must never descend into violence."

The president also held a news conference earlier in the day, in which he said he'd spoken with Trump, who was "doing well and recovering." Biden added that he and Vice President Kamala Harris have been briefed by law enforcement, the National Security adviser and Homeland Security.

Biden said he has directed the Secret Service to provide Trump with "every resource capability and protective measure necessary to ensure his continued safety." He has also asked the Secret Service to review security for the Republican National Convention, which begins on Monday, and ordered an independent review of national security at the rally.

The president urged unity and cautioned against assumptions about the suspect's motives.

Biden first addressed reporters about the shooting from Rehoboth Beach, Delaware, about 90 minutes after it occurred.

“It’s sick. It’s sick. It’s one of the reasons we have to unite this country,” he said. “We cannot condone this.”

The president's campaigning was put on hold for roughly 36 hours, and began again on Monday afternoon.

Matt Lavietes is a reporter for NBC Out.

Trump rally shooter Thomas Crooks: Neighbors, classmates, employer speak

A 20-year-old man from Pennsylvania fired multiple shots at former President Donald Trump at a rally on Saturday evening.

A bullet grazed the presumptive Republican presidential nominee's upper right ear , leaving him bloodied but not seriously injured. One rally attendee was killed in the gunfire and two others were "critically injured," authorities later said.

Here's what we know:

Who is the shooter at the rally?

The FBI identified Thomas Matthew Crooks of Bethel Park, Pennsylvania, as the person behind the assassination attempt. Agency officials released little additional information, saying its investigation remains active and ongoing. They did not indicate what Crooks' motive might have been.

Crooks worked at a nearby nursing home. An administrator there told USA TODAY that the company was shocked to learn of the shooting and that Crooks had passed a background check for his job.

What did Thomas Crooks do at the crime scene?

During the shooting Saturday, Trump's right ear was injured, seconds before he was whisked off stage by Secret Service personnel.  One man attending the rally was killed  and two others were injured; Crooks was then killed by Secret Service agents , authorities said.

FBI special agent Kevin Rojek said on a call with media Sunday afternoon that authorities found "a suspicious device" when they searched the shooter's vehicle. Bomb technicians inspected the device and rendered it safe. 

"I'm not in a position to provide any expertise on the specific components of any potential bombs or suspicious packages," Rojek added. 

Rojek said law enforcement is sending the rifle and Crooks' cell phone, along with other evidence, to the FBI lab in Quantico, Virginia "for processing and exploitation."

"We're in the process of searching his phone," Rojek said.

Maps and graphics: What happened in the Trump assassination attempt

What is Crooks' background?

Crooks is registered to vote as a Republican in Allegheny County, Pennsylvania, according to county voter records. His voter registration status has been active since 2021.

Federal Election Commission records show that in January 2021, Crooks made a $15 donation to the Progressive Turnout Project, a group working to increase voter turnout for Democrats.

Born Sept. 20, 2003, Crooks does not have a criminal record in Pennsylvania, nor has he been sued there, according to state court records. There is no record of him in federal court databases, either.

Where did Thomas Crooks work?

Crooks worked as a dietary aid, a job that generally involves food preparation, at Bethel Park Skilled Nursing and Rehabilitation, less than a mile from his home. In a statement provided to USA TODAY on Sunday, Marcie Grimm, the facility's administrator, said she was "shocked and saddened to learn of his involvement."

"Thomas Matthew Crooks performed his job without concern and his background check was clean," Grimm said. "We are fully cooperating with law enforcement officials at this time. Due to the ongoing investigation, we cannot comment further on any specifics. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Former President Trump and the victims impacted by this terrible tragedy. We condemn all acts of violence."

The facility is owned by Kennett Square, Pennsylvania-based Genesis Healthcare. A job posting from the company for a dietary aid in the Pittsburgh area puts the pay at $16 an hour.

Thomas Crooks from Bethel Park, Pennsylvania

Crooks' home address is listed in Bethel Park, a suburb in the Pittsburgh metropolitan area, voter records show. That three-bedroom brick house has been owned since 1998 by Matthew and Mary Crooks, who appear to be his parents. Telephone calls to the couple were not returned overnight.

Near the Crooks home, Dean Sierka, 52, said he had known Crooks and his parents for years, as neighbors separated by only a few houses. Sierka’s daughter attended school with Crooks from elementary school through Bethel Park High School, and said she remembers him as quiet and shy.

Dean and his daughter said they would see Crooks at least once a week, often when Crooks was walking to work.

“You wouldn’t have expected this,” Dean Sierka said. “The parents and the family are all really nice people.”

At Bethel Park High School

Thomas Crooks graduated two years ago from Bethel Park High School, the Bethel Park School District confirmed. He was included in a 2022 local news article about recipients of a National Math & Science Initiative Star Award at the public high school, which enrolls about 1,300 students.

Jason Kohler attended Bethel Park High School with Crooks and said he remembers the 20-year-old sat alone at lunch and was “bullied almost every day.” Kids picked on Crooks for wearing camouflage to class and his quiet demeanor, Kohler, 21, said.

Since hearing Crooks has been named as the shooter, Kohler has been speaking with classmates who knew him, most of whom are stunned by the news.“It’s really hard to comprehend,” he said.

Sean Eckert said he went to school with Crooks from 5th through 12th grade. He said Crooks always went by “Tom.“

They shared classes together in elementary and middle school. Eckert said Crooks, though "fairly smart," was quiet and rarely spoke up.

Eckert said Crooks did not seem to have many friends. He didn't recall Crooks being playing any sports, being involved in any clubs or student groups or going to popular campus events. He often wore hunting clothes, so Eckert assumed he hunted.

No one in Eckert's group text from high school seemed to know Crooks very well, he said. They were shocked that someone from their town had done this. They were even more surprised that it was Tom Crooks.

Nursing aide turned sniper: Thomas Crooks' mysterious plot to kill Trump

The gaming-oriented online site Discord said Sunday that it had found an account that appeared to be linked to the shooting suspect. The site removed the account, which “was rarely utilized, has not been used in months, and we have found no evidence that it was used to plan this incident, promote violence, or discuss his political views,“ according to a statement from a Discord spokesperson, adding that the company will coordinate closely with law enforcement.

Crooks was a member of the Clairton Sportsmen’s Club, a shooting club about 8 miles from his home. It is a sprawling complex of 180 acres with rifle, pistol and archery ranges, an area for dog training and a clubhouse, according to the club website.An attorney for the club, Robert Bootay III, confirmed Crooks' membership in an email to USA TODAY, but would not offer additional details.

Where is Bethel Park, Pennsylvania?

Bethel Park is a suburb of Pittsburgh and home to more than 32,000 people – about one thousand fewer than four years ago, according to the latest Census estimates. 

The majority-white, mostly college-educated community has a median household income of $102,177. 

Described as a charming retreat from the hustle and bustle of the big city to its north, Bethel Park boasts tree-line streets, friendly neighborhoods and a low crime rate.

Bethel Park is about 42 miles south of Butler, where the Trump rally was held. The leafy suburban street was alive with law enforcement overnight amid a multi-agency response to the shooting. A member of the Allegheny County bomb squad told reporters his team was headed into the house around midnight, but did not say why.

For hours afterward, the scene remained quiet, with deer passing under the police tape and an occasional neighbor stepping out of their house to see what was happening.

John Wolf, a local construction superintendent who lives down the road, said he’d talked with several worried neighbors.

“People are scared,” Wolf said.

How did Crooks shoot at Trump?

Crooks had been positioned on a rooftop more than 100 yards from the rally site, Secret Service spokesperson Anthony Guglielmi said. Law enforcement recovered an AR-style rifle from the scene.

Joseph Price, special agent in charge of the ATF in Pittsburgh, said the weapon used by the shooter was a rifle.“It was nothing special,” he said in an interview in the parking lot of the Butler Township Municipal Building.

Law enforcement is following up on a “number of suspicious occurrences,” said Lt. Col. George Bivens of the Pennsylvania State Police, including accounts from witnesses who said they tried to flag police about the activity of a person outside the rally moments before the shooting.

The FBI said in a news release that the situation “remains an active and ongoing investigation, and anyone with information that may assist with the investigation is encouraged to submit photos or videos online at  FBI.gov/butler  or call 1-800-CALL-FBI.”

Contributing: Stephanie Warsmith, Tim Evans, Aysha Bagchi, Jessica Guynn, Bryce Buyakie